{"id":2437,"date":"2021-12-10T13:23:02","date_gmt":"2021-12-10T18:23:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/?p=2437"},"modified":"2021-12-10T13:23:02","modified_gmt":"2021-12-10T18:23:02","slug":"book-review-becoming-future-you-mel-jolly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/book-review-becoming-future-you-mel-jolly\/","title":{"rendered":"Book Review – Becoming Future You, Mel Jolly"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"You\u2019re already becoming Future You, but do you like who you\u2019re becoming? Life coach Mel Jolly encourages us to answer that question and make the journey with purpose in Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of your Own Life<\/em>. She writes with an easy, conversational style and a good dose of humor. Her personal examples really help the points she\u2019s making hit home, and the questions in the free companion workbook help readers get clarity on their goals, dreams and desires and proactively move toward becoming the best version of themselves. At the end of each chapter is a recap followed by questions and\/or action items.<\/p>\n

Mel says, \u201cSometimes we create a vision of our Future Selves who is less stressed and more organized and has her act together\u2026 and then we continue to do the same things we\u2019ve always done and wonder why she hasn\u2019t shown up yet.\u201d She encourages us to look at our thoughts, words and responses through the filter of whether it\u2019s helping you become Future You, and to start noticing the difference between what Future You would say and do and what Present You is currently doing. Becoming the best version of ourselves takes work, but Mel encourages us to enjoy the growth journey and make it like an epic road trip with sightseeing destinations (your dreams) and a map (strategy).<\/p>\n

Working to fulfill our purpose and become the best we can be isn\u2019t selfish. Just the opposite. As Mel puts it, \u201cIt\u2019s only in embracing your talents and desires and chasing your dreams and taking care of yourself that you fill your well. That\u2019s what gives you joy and energy and enthusiasm, which you can then pass on to others.\u201d She says, \u201cBecoming Future You is not about being dissatisfied with your life and wishing it were different. It\u2019s about listening to your gut, embracing who you truly are, and striving to become that version of yourself with joy and gratitude.\u201d<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, most of us carry beliefs that hold us back, and we unknowingly sabotage who we want to be in our future. Becoming Future You <\/em>helps us identify the stumbling blocks that keep us from becoming the best version of ourselves and offers a game plan for overcoming them. One way of sabotaging Future You that hit home with me is committing to things in the near future that we don\u2019t have time for now but somehow think we\u2019ll have time for then. But Mel points out that Near-Future You is probably going to be just as busy as Present You (maybe even more so because we don\u2019t know what unexpected things might arise), and Future You won\u2019t thank you for putting that responsibility on her plate.<\/p>\n

Mel poses the question, \u201cAre you going to choose to be the hero of your story? Or are you going to use the excuse that you\u2019re not in control and continue to let life be something that just happens to you?\u201d I highly recommend Becoming Future You.<\/em> This book isn\u2019t just for those who feel trapped, stuck, defeated or sick and tired of surviving instead of thriving. It\u2019s for everyone who wants to become the best version of themselves that they can be.<\/p>\n

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You\u2019re already becoming Future You, but do you like who you\u2019re becoming? Life coach Mel Jolly encourages us to answer that question and make the journey with purpose in Becoming Future You: Be the Hero of your Own Life. She writes with an easy, conversational style and a good dose of humor. Her personal examples […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"image","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[53],"tags":[152,92,153,151,150],"class_list":["post-2437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-image","hentry","category-book-recommendations","tag-becoming-future-you","tag-book-review","tag-life-coach","tag-mel-jolly","tag-self-help","post_format-post-format-image"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2437"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2442,"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2437\/revisions\/2442"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caroljpost.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}